I stood at the foot of her bed watching her labored breathing. Her daughter was sobbing beside her and giving her assurance that everything will be alright, that she doesn’t have to worry about anything. I was silently saying prayers for her because I know what was going to happen. Her family wasn’t aware that the time has come. As she layed there, she had tears trickling down her face while her daughter talked to her..then she coughed..took one last breath..coughed again..then there were silence….
It has been almost a week that my friend’s gramma passed away. Strangely, I did not feel sad, maybe because I knew that though her body has perished but her soul is still here. My friend and I are sort of physics and have been communicating with her gramma after she passed on. It was bittersweet because we can’t see her physically but still able to sense her presence. This all may sound out of the world to some of you, but my friend’s and my guardian angels have been spending alot of time with gramma since her passing. And I realized that gramma is now happier than ever!
I remembered the part where gramma’s coffin was being loaded into the cremation room, her family were crying so hard and calling her name, my friend and I on the other hand were indifferent because gramma’s spirit was standing right beside us smiling gently. I really don’t know how to explain this but for me, death is not as bad as it seem.
I think alot of people fear death. But to me, death is a fresh new start and it is how we are going to die that I fear and of course the famous “judgement day”. But think again, if people have been doing good deeds in their life, there’s no need to fear the “judgement day”. I’ll probably explain that further on another new post cuz it’s kind out of the story line here.
Anyway, I had this dejavu when I was standing at the foot of my friend’s gramma’s bed moments before she passed on. It was like that time I watched my own gramma passed away few months ago and I had a different perspective on death ever since that day. Death should be celebrated and not to be sad about. Mourning for the dead is not the best option, to me it is a very selfish option to choose, where we cry for our own comfort and create the unwillingness of the deceased to depart from our world. We should celebrate those who have passed on for their courage and strength to go through life sufferings on Earth and completion of their mission where they are welcome back Home.










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